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Respected Well-Liked Leaders: 18 Things They Consistently Do!

by Kate Nasser

I continue to hear leaders say they must choose between being respected and being liked. The good news is it’s not true. Moreover, it is important not to trade one for the other. Respected well-liked leaders inspire, engage, and foster organizational success. 

Respected Well-Liked Leaders: 18 Things They Consistently Do!

  1. Respected well-liked leaders are like-able but they don’t seek to be liked at every moment. They don’t avoid situations just to be liked.
  2. They communicate with honesty and civility not bluntness and disdain.
  3. Respected well-liked leaders take time to get to know people. They don’t come on  at the beginning like everyone’s best friend. They show comfort in leadership and over  time in friendship.
  4. Respected well-liked leaders appreciate and recognize effort and talent as much  as results and success. They understand and accept the human need for appreciation and encouragement. Leaders who think that praise weakens teams weaken their teams  by skipping the praise.
  5. They are confident and humble. Respected well-liked leaders illustrate how to be self- assured while sharing the spotlight with others. They are selfless not faceless.
  6. They are open-minded not indecisive. They listen and consider many views and weigh in with their expertise. They know that empowerment is not abandonment.  They know when to tell, when to ask; when to wait and when to take action.
  7. In difficult moments, they give empathy as well as possible solutions. Respected leaders use their expertise and vision to solve problems. Respected well-liked leaders attend to the human needs as well.
  8. Respected well-liked leaders rise above their own pet peeves. By focusing on  others’ needs instead of their own personal preferences, leaders become respected as well  as liked. Those who constantly expect everyone to cater to their personal preferences are  disrespected and disliked.
  9. They improve their high emotional intelligence every day. Respected well-liked  leaders develop their social skills to greet people warmly. They evolve their self-awareness to be the model of self-regulation.
  10. Respected well-liked leaders are optimistic and realistic. They have healthy  skepticism without being pessimistic and jaded.
  11. They create an environment where it is safe to innovate and change. Change can  be scary. Respected well-liked leaders don’t quarantine their courage. They make it  contagious!
  12. They show up fully for themselves and others every day. They energize others and  model true contribution.
  13. Respected well-liked leaders live and exhibit love of diversity. They don’t create  clones; they spot and develop diverse talent. Who wouldn’t respect and like that!
  14. Respected well-liked leaders put the “we go” before the ego.
  15. They put themselves on the line with their teams. They address unfairness, bullying, cliques, chronic complainers, and slackers. You never hear them say, “just work  it out yourselves.”
  16. Respected well-liked leaders seek and inspire excellence, not perfectionism. Their reasonableness has room for forgiveness that develops a valuable culture of learning and accountability.
  17. Respected well-liked leaders are a buoy (not the buoy) of inspiration and balance. Their energy and light guide everyone from the gray zone of confusion to the  end zone of success. The team members then buoy each other.
  18. They communicate very well. Their words and tone inspire greatness without leaving scars. They reach others they don’t preach to others.
    They call everyone to  change  and grow while honoring who they are. This is why these leaders are respected  and well-l iked.




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